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Tuesday, July 26, 2011

How to be Successful...


















I have never done anything that is special.. this is surprising but true.. I followed the rain.. I walked a lot.. But I was known to the places .. My friends always supported me. They moved a long with me. They are even now with me.. I am thankful to GOD for such loving friends and people around me…

I will never miss any opportunity to say thank.



Smile a lot. For any reason keep smile in face. Atleast for others… and enjoy Success..

People often ask me for advice on how to be successful. "Is there a secret?" they say.

As we all know, real success comes slowly and is due to a number of different factors all coming together over a period of years. Being successful takes intelligence, natural talent, knowledge, skill, hard work, smart choices, persistence and luck.

Although there is no real shortcut, there is a secret: a secret so powerful that you can use it to open doors that might otherwise be closed, and to influence people to help you time and again. In fact, I would go as far as to say that this is the secret that has a lot to do with my success.

Then What is success? It is what everyone is looking for. Sometimes, success would rather be simple. Winning a game is success; getting a high grade in the exam is success; making a new friend is also success. In the dictionary, success means the accomplishment of an aim or purpose.




Everyone should know typical fairy tale in his/her childhood. It is used to tell us this kind of scene “Once upon a time, there was a king who had a daughter as beautiful as a blooming rose. To all the suitors who came to the king's palace to ask for the hand of the princess; the old king assigned three tasks to be accomplished, each next to impossible. One day, into the king's palace came a handsome young prince.” Well, now you may know the rest. And the ending is always the same, finishing with the line "And they live happily forever." How can a story like that endure generations of repetition? Because, I think, it is a symbolic success story. We see the 4 steps definition of success: 1) a goal to be set, as represented by the beautiful princess; 2) challenges to be met; 3) the process of surmounting difficulties, as represented by the ordeals the youth goes through; and 4) the reward of success, as represented by the happy marriage.

The secret is simple: Be Honest to Yourself.


First of all, everyone can classify something as a goal when he/she try to overcome a long-term challenge. This is the first step to be success. I remember I used to fail on my vocabulary test when I was in my reading class. I had problem to memorize new words which got lost each day. I almost decided to give up English. But, my parents told me a way to set your vocabulary goal which is to write down new words in small sheet and memorize them daily.

Everyone is always looking for that one thing that will help them solve all of life’s mysteries.

What if I told you there is one such thing, that if you follow it almost all of your problems will be made easier and you would automatically do the right thing in every situation?

The one fundamental key to success in life is Truth and Honesty.

As funny as it sounds it works.

If you speak the truth and are honest to everybody including yourself, you will reach great heights.

Now when I say truth and honesty I don’t mean your typical preschool morals, I mean religiously follow this one fact.

Here are some examples where you can utilize this key to success:

  • Say you do something and your “conscience” feels bad, don’t lie to yourself by justifying your actions. Be honest even to yourself.
  • Say you do something small as take someone’s pen, don’t lie about it
  • Say you get caught doing something your not don’t make excuses say the truth

These are just basic examples but what this means is that you always are honest and speak the truth. This way you never excuse yourself.

By knowing you will always speak the truth if asked, you will try to do the right things to satisfy others and yourself.

Automatically this change and responsibility for yourself will make you excel at whatever you do.

All in all you would become more respected and more liked and everything in your life would go the right way.

And if all that’s not enough for the basic man, you would by speaking the truth develop other positive characteristics like responsibility and punctuality by simply following the root of all goodness: Truth and Honesty.

So if you are still looking for something to devote your life to, this is a quite good objective.

Good luck in becoming truthful, pious, and successful people.

There is nothing Successful person use to do… they just start doing it.

Never Late or hesitate…. Keep Laughing that will itself bring Honesty..




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